Dr. Terri Apter

Dr. Terri Apter is Senior Tutor at Newnham College, Cambridge. Her research focuses on family dynamics and work/family balance. She is the author of Altered Loves: Mothers and Daughters During Adolescence (a New York Times Notable Book of the Year), and The Confident Child: Raising Children to Believe in Themselves which won the Delta Kappa Gamma Society International Educator's Award in 1998. She explored young people's difficult transition to adulthood in The Myth of Maturity: What Teenagers Need from Parents to Become Adults (2002) in which she coined the now familiar term "thresholders" to identify young people stuck at the threshold to adulthood. Her recent book You Don't Really Know Me (featured in People Magazine as the "Buzz Book" of the week) takes a fresh look at the familiar and baffling conversations that erupt between adolescent daughters and their mothers; Writing in The Independent on Sunday, Marina Cantacuzino remarked, "Terri Apter‘s book is both a balm for my savaged feelings and a useful compass in this maze." Her most recent book is The Sister Knot, which the TLS reviewer described as having "enormous explanatory value, both for those who have sisters and those who do not."

Her PT blog is Domestic Intelligence.